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Help for Victims of Bullying

Ask the Experts by Marlene Seltzer, M.D.

Q. Last fall, my 8-year-old daughter started at a new school. Everything was fine for the first few months, but lately she seems depressed and often complains of headaches. I've taken her to our doctor, but he can't find anything wrong. I'm afraid she may be being bullied by classmates. How can I speak to her to get her to open up about it?

A. You are smart in recognizing she may be the subject of bullies. Some parents shrug it off as their child "going through a phase."

Have a frank conversation with your daughter that if she is being bullied it is not her fault.  Bullying is an unacceptable aggressive behavior that makes the bully feel more powerful or stronger than their victim.

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Skills for Strong Confident Women

Ask the Experts by Jennifer Mcmann-Buszka, MSNQ

I have two sons and a daughter. My daughter is older and the boys are only two and three years younger. I have witnessed the boys affectionately teasing her, but I can almost see her wither like a beautiful flower on a scorching day. How can I teach her to be strong and confident?

A. From a very early age, women are portrayed on television and in magazines as beautiful with blemish free skin, flawless sparkling white teeth, and of course, a perfectly shaped body. As girls mature and experience acne, braces and awkward bodies due to growth spurts, the contrast to television and magazines is glaring as they look in the mirror.

It's important to reassure your daughter that she not believe the women on television and in magazines always look like that. They have a full crew of people to help them look like that - just before they step in front of the cameras.

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Personal Safety and Self-Defense

Ask the Experts by Ian Kinder

Q. My daughter and I walk every night. With the days getting shorter, we are walking at dusk, sometimes even later. What can we do to stay safe?

A. Walk in well-lit, open areas that are well populated and active. Avoid dark areas that are confined and isolated. Carry charged cell phones and stay in areas where there is a good signal.

It is always a good idea to be trained in self-defense and carry a personal protection device, such pepper spray or a TASER. Stabbing an attacker with a ballpoint pen can even at times be enough to distract the attacker and give you time to flee.

Don't forget a women's best friend - dogs are great companions and wonderful protection.

Walk defensively like you drive defensively - not in fear, but aware and prepared.

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Flu Shots in Kids

Ask the Experts by Prashant V. Mahajan, MD, MPH, MBA

Why is it important for children to be protected against the flu?

It is estimated that each year an average of 20,000 children under the age of 5 are hospitalized because of flu complications. Severe complications are more common in children younger than two years of age.

Children with chronic health problems like asthma, diabetes and disorders of the brain or nervous system are also at high risk of developing serious flu complications. Parents should check with their pediatrician so the vaccine or nasal-spray is given when it is available.

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Kindergarten Readiness - Social and Emotional Development

Ask the Experts by Lori Warner, PhD

Q: I'm worried that my child won't be ready for kindergarten; she has hardly been away from me in her whole life! What can I do to help her get ready?

A: Discuss her upcoming school with excitement and enthusiasm, but be honest that sometimes it can be challenging to start new adventures, and it's okay if she is a little nervous. 

Make sure she has a visit to the new school and learns about the routines she'll follow.  You can also do some "trial runs" of separating - get her used to spending time with a sitter or family member while you run a short errand.

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Reading Skills for Children

Ask the Experts by Melissa Sharp

I am a mother of twin preschoolers seeking knowledge on the early phases of reading and writing.

Preparing a child to read and write begins with the first book read in infancy.  From that point, children need experiences that foster oral language, content knowledge, literacy skills, and thinking.

What understandings and skills does my child need when learning to read?

Print conventions:  reading left to right and top to bottom, spaces between words, using upper and lower case letters, and punctuation. Alphabet and phonological awareness:  translating letters into sounds.

Oral language:  oral vocabulary and background knowledge, access to interesting books.

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Get a Doctor's Opinion if You Suspect Learning Disabilities

Ask the Experts by Lori J. Warner, Ph.D.

Q: Our 21-month-old daughter does not respond to her name and when we tell her "no," she doesn't stop what she is doing. Is it OK to take a "wait and see" approach or should we be concerned?

A: Parents often worry about behaviors that are part of typical development, but some behaviors are "red flags," indicating the need for a closer look. Always share your concerns with your child's doctor.  For more information about what milestones to watch for as your child grows, visit http://www.cdc.gov/actearly or the American Academy of Pediatrics at http://www.aap.org/.

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Private Caregiver vs. Home Care Companies

Ask the Experts by Carolyn Van Dorn

Q: I am considering hiring a caregiver to help with our special needs child. What is the difference between hiring a private caregiver and using a home care company? 

A: When utilizing the services of a private caregiver, you may pay less per hour and not have to agree to a minimum number of hours per day or week. You will have to perform applicant searches, be responsible for paying payroll taxes, carry personal liability, worker's compensation and unemployment insurance.

Your homeowner's insurance company may require you to register the domestic worker that is on site. Private care givers do not typically have anyone to fill in for them if they are ill or need time off work. You also become the human resource manager, responsible for all aspects of job performance and problems.

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Science reveals benefits of dyslexia

Ask the Experts by Ann Laciura

Q: Our fourth-grade son was just diagnosed with dyslexia, and we are about to start lessons with an Orton-Gillingham-trained instructor.  The problem is, because of his frustration in school, our son is convinced that he is stupid, nothing will change that, and tutoring is a waste of time. What can we do to give him hope?

A. Dyslexia does not mean a person is stupid. In fact, history shows, quite the opposite. Tell your son that he is in excellent company. Albert Einstein was no slouch, revolutionizing physics. Fellow innovators Thomas Edison, Alexander Graham Bell and Henry Ford were dyslexic. In the art world, Leonardo da Vinci and Walt Disney are giants.

Among today’s dyslexic public figures are journalist Anderson Cooper, business tycoon Richard Branson, and authors John Irving and Stephen Cannell. Dyslexic entertainers include Jay Leno, Cher, Whoopi Goldberg, Quentin Tarantino and Henry Winkler.

I might refer you to a wonderful book: The Gift of Dyslexia: Why Some of the Smartest People Can’t Read and How They Can Learn.

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Making the Holidays Less Materialistic

Ask the Experts by Eric Herman

It's not the gifts but what's bind them that's important - the spirit of giving. Help your kids learn the fun of giving with some parental tips to help curb materialism in your kids and reinforce the real reason for the season:

Q. During this time of year kids are bombarded with commercials to entice them to want a variety of toys and gadgets they may not need. What can parents do?

A. Of course, it can be challenging to eliminate all exposure to TV and radio marketing messages, but you can always turn off the TV or limit your kids' watching time.

Another important tip is to teach children that not everything they want can always be theirs and that a little "want" here and there isn't all bad. 

Q. What are some things that parents can do to help make the holiday more meaningful?

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Treatments for Kids with Migraine Headaches

Ask the Experts by Lalitha Sivaswamy, MD

What are some of the common treatments for kids who have migraine headaches?

There are two groups of medicines used --"rescue medications" are what you would use when you get a migraine when you are in school or when you need relief right away. There are good rescue medications nowadays including certain inhalants, oral pills and even injectables. It depends on your level of comfort and what works best for you. Examples of these drugs include sumatriptan and rizatriptan.

Some other children have very frequent headaches for which using a daily medication may be a better option.

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HOLLYFEST 2012 a Great Success

The Family Center thanks all of our sponsors, supporters and friends who gathered for HOLLYFEST's Diamond Anniversary Celebration. A record number of attendees made for a record-breaking fundraiser in all respects.

As always, the hospitality and charm of the Grosse Pointe Club helped make for an enjoyable evening and a great way to kick off the season while raising funds for the continued success of The Family Center.

Thanks also to the Grosse Pointe News for front-page coverage of the festivities!

The HOLLYFEST committee will soon be getting plans underway for next year, so sponsorship opportunities and auction item placements will soon be available.

 

Program Planning

The Family Center is planning for the future - and you can help shape it! Please participate in our community poll. It will only take a minute and it will help define the types of programs and presentations that we bring to you. Click the Read more link below to continue to the poll.

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