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When Should My High Schooler Start College Planning?

Ask the Experts by Beth Walsh-Sahutske & Milissa Pierce

Striking the right balance in helping your child through the college preparation process is no simple task.

Parents want to instill a college mindset and encourage their child to maintain high standards while still keeping an eye on family/life stability. The potential to disrupt home with stress to child and parents is great. The optimal solution is to re-frame the approach that the whole family takes towards the college investigation process.

If we look at it developmentally like the natural evolution of the student's life cycle then we can more effectively integrate the research, application and selection process into this next phase of life and the dream of college becomes to find the perfect match instead of the treasured prize.

Q: My child just started high school. Is it too early to start talking about college?

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Successful Transitions from Preschool to Kindergarten

ASK THE EXPERTS by Dorothy Heitjan, Deb Kraft and Kristen DeVooght 

Q.  How can we as parents help our preschooler make a successful transition into Kindergarten?

It is vital in the preschool years to provide your child with the experiences that will build the foundation for later success in school. Keep in mind the amazing developmental changes that occur in a child's body and brain during the preschool years. In order to help your child build these neural connections, parents should provide:

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Relational Aggression and Bullying: What Can Schools Do About It?

Ask the Experts by Georgia Michalopoulou, Ph.D.

Q: I am a Middle School Counselor. What can we as educators, counselors and Schools do about bullying?

Relational aggression or bullying is a behavior that is intended to harm someone by damaging or manipulating his or her relationships with others. It is a serious issue that affects kids as early as preschool age and can continue into adult workplaces.

The National Education Association reports that as many as 160,000 kids miss school every day out of fear of being victimized by such behaviors.

Bullying can be difficult for an outsider to observe, identify or prove for a variety of reasons. A roll of the eyes, a heavy sigh, a snub in the hallway, or exclusion at the lunch table; are all subtle examples of discrete bullying.

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Relational Aggression and Bullying: What Can Parents Do About It?

Ask the Experts by Georgia Michalopoulou, Ph.D.

Q: I am parent of both a middle school student and high school student. I occasionally hear from my children about issues of bullying in their daily lives. What can parents do about relational aggression and bullying?

Relational aggression is a form of bullying. It consists of manipulating relationships to exert control over another child, or harming another child by damaging his or her friendships or reputation.

This kind of behavior is a growing concern for parents as it can sadly lead to life-long consequences and even death. Research shows that students who have been the targets of relational aggression have:

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Developing Healthy Relationships at Home, School and in the Community

Ask the Experts by Eric Herman, MA, LLP, DMC Children's Hospital of Michigan

Q: As an parent I know that there are many benefits to developing healthy relationships at home, work and in the community. What tips can you share to help me teach my children those benefits so that they can better navigate school and throughout life?

What are some practical tips on how individuals can develop healthy relationships at home, school and the community?

Parents are the model for their children as to how to relate or have a relationship with the world. For good or bad, what a child learns or does not learn at home, will have a significant impact on his or her ability to have healthy, effective and satisfying relationships with others.

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The Psychological Costs of Bullying

Ask the Experts by Michael Butkus, PhD, LP, DMC Children's Hospital of Michigan

Q: Every day thousands of teens wake up afraid to go to school. I've learned that bullying is a problem that affects millions of students, and it has everyone worried, not just the kids on its receiving end. How can parents and educators better understand just how extreme bullying can get, and how it impacts everyone involved? 

What are the effects bullying can have on the victim?

There are numerous potential consequences. These include increased stress, anxiety, and worrying about both going to and being in school. Victims can have school attendance problems and physical complaints such as stomachaches and headaches. Other potential issues include:

Read more: The Psychological Costs of Bullying

 

Starter Fluid of Bullying = Meanness

Ask the Experts by Sean Hogan Downey, LMSW, LMFT 

Q: There is so much education on bullying in the schools, but I'm not sure that I understand what the difference is between unkindness between peers and bullying? What do I need to know to help my kids navigate these issues in school and socially? What's the major difference between meanness and bullying?

All bullying involves meanness but not all meanness is bullying. What distinguishes bullying from unkind behavior is that it is intentional, aggressive and involves an imbalance of power.

Bullying and meanness is becoming more prevalent in our children's' day to day lives:

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Peer Expectations during the Middle School Transition Years

Ask the Experts by Michael Dib, EdD

Q: My oldest child has just entered middle school. What should my expectations be regarding my child and peer relationships?

A: Each student who enters middle school comes with a unique sense of belonging and confidence. Accept your child for who she/he is and support the transition to middle school with a consistent and positive demeanor. New peer relationships will likely occur during the middle school years.

Encourage your child to participate in extra-curricular activities and school events which will help develop new peer relationships, while still maintaining existing friendships. As tempting as it might be, don't pick your child's friends based upon what you think is best for your child.

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Parental Responsibility for Underage Drinking in their Home

Ask the Experts by Ed Lazar

Q: Are parents responsible for the consequences of underage drinking in their home? If so, how serious are those consequences?

A: Kids love to celebrate. Whether at a family graduation party or a spontaneous late night get together, some kids celebrate with alcohol. What's worse, 65% of kids under age 21 who say they drink admit they get alcohol from family and friends. That means they get it from their parents, their friends' parents, or older siblings.

Make no mistake about this: If you provide alcohol, directly or indirectly, to someone under the legal drinking age you can be held responsible for what happens after they have consumed it. 

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Family Center GPNews Feature

A recent article in the Grosse Pointe News that features the work of The Family Center begins with:

"Guiding families: Parents always have questions when it comes to their children and for a dozen years The Family Center of Grosse Pointe and Harper Woods has been the go-to resource providing those answers."

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STRESSED OUT?!? Its time to connect to calm

Ask the Experts by Jill Wrubel

Q: Last week at lunch I noticed how my coworkers and I were very anxious and talking about how busy and overworked we were feeling, and that even at home most of us are unable to relax and have any sense of peace? What can we do?

A. Have you noticed that the most popular conversation has become how we're stressed-out? Many succumb to the notion that it is next to impossible to avoid stress. Current studies say that 90 percent of disease is stress-related. The National Institute of Health (NIH) has determined that managing stress improves health.

SO WHAT DO WE DO? Good question. How can I fit anymore into my already over-scheduled day? Reality: "HOW CAN I AFFORD NOT TO?"

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Tips for families with students soon to be taking the ACT

Ask the Experts by Michael Richman 

Q: What can we do as parents to help and support our children preparing to take the ACT this coming fall?

A: For those tackling the ACT for the first time, it can be daunting, but not only can students take the test more than once, it is highly recommended they do so! In fact, on average, students will do better the second time they take it, once they are familiar with the process and past those first time jitters.

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Navigating the Senior Years

Ask the Experts by Karen Adair

Q: My 75 year old father is terrified about having to someday go into a nursing home. What can he do proactively to extend his time at home?

A: This is a complex question and depends a great deal on the health condition of your father. However, in general, ensuring your father stays active physically, mentally and socially will help him maintain his independence as long as possible. Having the regular assistance of a professional caregiver can ensure he is remaining active.

Q: My father is currently living in an assisted living facility and can no longer drive. All my siblings work and the van service is not always convenient. I feel trapped, what should I do?

A: It is natural to feel trapped when mobility becomes limited. Thankfully there are services available through companies. They provide caregivers who will drive you wherever you need to go whether it is to church, a friend's house, a social outing or any appointments you may have.

Read more: Navigating the Senior Years

   

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