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The Family Center: Resources for Families, Individuals and Professionals

Serving our community through programs and resources vital to today’s families.

A New Sense of Entitlement "The Rules Don't Apply to Me"

Ask the Experts by Marla K. Ruhana, LMSW

Q: What is going on within this society? I feel like I can't even relate to my friends anymore! I no longer enjoy socializing as the things that seem alright to them are NOT alright with me. Their reactions frustrate me too, as if I am some prude. The truth is I have not changed, they've changed and appear to be so laid back with regard to parenting, can you help me?

A: It sounds like you have strong beliefs and adhere to your values in terms of parenting ...

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What Can Happen When Your Private Messages Go Public

ASK THE EXPERTS by M.L. ELRICK, Investigative Reporter, Detroit Free Press

Q.  As a parent, I caution my teens frequently about the content of what they email and text.  I want them to be aware of what might happen if they are careless, any suggestions?

A. Everyone has an embarrassing old photo out there. It may be snapshot from the 80s, in which you're proudly displaying your new freshly-coifed mullet or new acid-washed jeans. While you wince when you see it now, at the time it sure seemed ...

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K2 and Bath Salt Abuse on the Rise

Ask the Experts by Detective Lieutenant Jim Smith

Q. I have three children, two that are off to college and one still in high school.  My husband and I are shocked and disappointed at the variety of drugs that seem to be available to those that are looking for them.  Two of my children are going to Florida for Spring Break. Is it my imagination or does it seem that there is always a new threat on the horizon? 

A. As tecnology increases at lighting speed so do unscrupulous entrepreneurs ...

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Teenagers – Don't Blame Them, It's Their Brain

ASK THE EXPERTS by Pete Pullen, Head of School, Eton Academy

Q: Why is my teenager unable to multi-task?  He seems he is only capable of focusing on one task at a time?

A: Your teenager has just backed your brand new SUV into the garage door for the third time.  He explains that he really was paying attention although you saw him on his cell phone as he pulled into the driveway.  He then begins to inform you that he failed his math test because his sister was annoying him the previous ...

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Parenting: The Middle School Years

Ask the Experts by Scott Tily

Q: I'm the parent of an 11yr old boy, how do I help him and, to be honest, myself navigate the middle school years?

A: Attending middle school is an exciting and challenging time for both students and parents. With their rapid brain development, the onset of puberty and the subsequent rapid changes in their bodies, and the fluctuations of hormones in their system and the subsequent impact on their moods and impulse control, there is little wonder that at times adolescents ...

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Help with Self-love for Teen Girls

Ask the Experts by Erin A. Williams, LMSW, BCD

Q: As a parent of a 13 year old daughter, how do I teach her to love herself?

A:   There are so many ways to encourage self-love in a teenage girl, and despite what they may try to convince you of, it doesn't need to start with a trip to Somerset Mall!  

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Worrying Over Things Beyond Our Control

Ask The Experts by Marla Ruhana, LMSW

Q- Lately, I catch myself worrying so much over things like, is my best friend mad at me? Will I get a promotion? Will I have another baby, and if so, how will that impact our family? Will we lose our home in these difficult economic times? These worries go on and on, and I feel they are preventing me from living each day to its fullest. Is this normal?

A- Many people experience thoughts like yours. The good news is you are aware of them!  Others go ...

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Balanced, Healthy Diets

Ask The Experts by Zonya Foco   

Q: I'm raising a family of three teenagers and trying to make sure that we all get a balanced, healthy diet.  Here are some questions we have. 

Q: Oatmeal is so blah. How can we make it healthier but still satisfy our taste buds?   

A: Are you looking to sweeten your oatmeal with less calories and carbs? Let me make this suggestion. Instead of automatically trading sugar for one of those pink, blue or yellow packets, ...

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Cyber Bullying: Stop, Block and Tell

Ask The Experts: By Craig Anderson, Program Specialist, the Michigan Roundtable for Diversity and Inclusion

Q: I've heard a lot about bullying lately, I'm concerned as to how I can protect my children from cyber bullying?

A: "I hate you! Everyone else hates you! You should just die!"  Those hateful words have been shouted on playgrounds as long as we all can remember. But what if those words were in an email sent to your child or grandchild? What if they were sent to all her friends? What ...

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The Lake House: A gathering place for those touched by cancer

Individuals and families living with cancer on the east side will soon have a place to go for emotional and social support, information, enrichment and caring smiles.

Initial offerings at The Lake House include afternoon and evening support groups, social opportunities, and programs dealing with stress management. An evening education series will feature experts presenting topics of interest to individuals living with cancer, as well as those who care for and about them.

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Help with Ending 'Bedtime Battles'

Lori Warner, Ph.D., HOPE Center, Beaumont Center for Human Development, provides tips on ending bedtime battles.  

Q:  My 6-year-old son used to be a great sleeper. Since he started school, he says he needs an extra drink of water or that he is scared of monsters in his closet. He will not sleep unless I lie down with him.  

A: It's not uncommon for even the best sleepers to have trouble when routines change or big events are on the horizon. Many parents report that ...

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About Teen Dating and Relationships

Ask the expert: Soroptimist International of Grosse Pointe

Q: What suggestions can you give me to guide my teenage daughters with dating?  Things have changed significantly since I was a teenager.  I try to guide them but they always say, "Mom you just don't understand!"  I really worry about both of them.

A:  Dating and intimate relationships are a normal part of growing up for many adolescents. Yet as teens form their first romantic relationships, they often are unclear about ...

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Help Children Grow to be Happy, Productive Adults

by Kim Steggles, M.A., L.L.P., Beaumont Parenting Program, provides insight into the questions often raised by parents.  

Q.  Parenting is so challenging.  How can my husband and I be effective parents while allowing our children to grow and develop into responsible adults?   We don't want to be overbearing, but we believe as parents we need to set boundaries and expectations.

A.  I couldn't agree more. One parenting theory, the 40 Developmental Assets, provides ...

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