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How Do We Know if We Need to Go to Probate?

Ask The Experts by Mike Kelly

Q: A loved one recently passed away and we are not sure how to handle the real estate left behind. How do we know if we need to go to probate?

A:  Often-times families are left with property due to a death of a loved one that is only transferrable through a Probate Court proceeding. Sometimes the family can access and use the property without going to probate.

This often occurs where other persons are part owners of the property but there is no right of survivorship ...

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Reaching In, Reaching Out During Times of Loss and Grief

Ask the Experts by Megan Gunnell, LMSW, MT-BC

As a therapist who specializes in grief and loss and an active member of this community, I felt compelled to contribute to the broken hearts of those impacted by the tragic accident that occurred on Lakeshore on Saturday, August 15, 2015.

Because our community is so uniquely small and closely connected, chances are when tragedy hits, we feel the effect of this deep sadness and pain as it ripples through the lives of friends and family who were touched ...

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My Mother's Medications are Overwhelming

Ask The Experts by Ghada Abdallah

Q: "My brother and I are sharing the responsibilities of taking care of our elderly mother. She is on so many meds it's hard for us to keep track of what she's taken and when, especially when neither of us are with her all the time. Is there a fool-proof system we could use to ensure we don't miss something?"

A: Yes! Blister packs or pill boxes would work. By simply compartmentalizing your medications, you will save time/hassle and track doses more effectively....

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Working with Your School when Your Child has a Congenital Heart Defect

Ask the Experts by Richard Humes, M.D.

Q: My son is entering school and has a congenital heart defect. Any advice on how to prepare him for school?

A: For many families, preparing for the upcoming school year is a very busy time. But for those with congenital heart defects (CHD), back to school issues can mean much more than where to find the coolest notebooks since their heart condition can have an impact on the student's performance both in and out of the classroom.

CHD is the leading cause ...

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Are My Kids Ready to See the Dentist?

Ask the Experts by Eric McCutcheon 

Q: I have two kids, aged three and five, that are getting ready for school. I try my best to keep their teeth clean and look for problems, but I don't know when they should start going to the dentist since mine doesn't see children. When is the best time to take my kids for their first dental checkup?

A:  As a family dentist, I get this question often from parents concerned about their children's dental health but worried their kids will be scared ...

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What would you say if your family member was sucidal?

Watch this compelling TED Talk video by Kevin Briggs - "The Bridge Between Suicide and Life"

For many years Sergeant Kevin Briggs had a dark, unusual, at times strangely rewarding job: He patrolled the southern end of San Francisco’s Golden Gate Bridge, a popular site for suicide attempts. In a sobering, deeply personal talk Briggs shares stories from those he’s spoken — and listened — to standing on the edge of life. He gives a powerful piece of advice to those with ...

   

Survivors: Let Someone See You Reading this Article

Ask the Experts by Mary Petersen

Q: "I have a friend who has disclosed to me that he had been sexually abused. How can I help diffuse the stigma and offer support so he can talk about it more easily?" 

A: Let it be okay for him to admit and discuss this horrific topic. Statistics are, 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men, in their lifetime, will admit being sexually abused. So imagine what isn't reported. 

Survivors often don't even tell their closest family and friends due to the great stigma ...

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Dad is Becoming Very Forgetful - What Should I Do?

Ask The Experts By Michael Kelly

Q:  My father is becoming very forgetful about things he would normally remember. I'm worried he is in the early stages of Alzheimer's disease or other dementia. What should I do?

A: Your first step is to have Dad examined by a qualified physician. The doctor determines what, if anything is actually wrong and recommends treatment. If the diagnosis is dementia further legal steps to provide Dad with adequate protections are necessary.

Once the diagnosis ...

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Make Reading A Year Round Commitment

Ask the Experts by Nick Smith

Q: My child worked so hard during the school year to become a stronger reader. How do I keep his reading skills sharp during the summer months, especially when he does not enjoy reading?

A: A common concern among parents, especially those who have children that struggle with reading, is what to do over the summer so that the skills attained during the school year do not regress. According to a report released by the RAND Corporation, the average summer learning ...

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What's So Special About a Special Needs Trust?

Ask the Experts by Michelle C. Harrell

Q: I am the parent of a 17 year old special needs child. I've been hearing the term "special needs trust" frequently lately. What is it and does my child need it? 

A: As parents of special needs children, we hear the term "special" so frequently that the meaning is sometimes lost.

I personally began to check into the aspects of a special needs trust for my youngest son, Adam, who suffered a brain injury. I needed answers to the question of what was ...

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Share the Caregiving Responsibilities

Ask the Experts by Jill Gafner

Q:  As a full-time working mother of busy teenagers and caregiver to my aging parents, I am often exhausted and overwhelmed. I would like to make some changes for the summer and enlist my kids to take on some of the responsibilities with my parents, but I'm not sure how to go about it. Please help!

A: I completely understand and empathize with your situation. You don't want the tasks to be a burden on your teens, rather you'd prefer they would willingly offer ...

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Fractured Elbow?

Ask the Experts by Ahmed Bazzi, D.O.

My child fell and hurt his elbow falling from a monkey bar. How can I tell if it's fractured? 

The warm weather is upon us. This is great news for kids that have been cooped up inside. But as kids hit the playscapes, trampolines and other activities requiring jumping and climbing, parents should be forewarned these activities have the potential to cause elbow injuries.

It is one of the more common injuries we see in the Orthopedics Department. According ...

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